Monday, 24 October 2011
Thursday, 20 October 2011
KENAPA AKU PEGANG TANGAN ISTERIKU
Suatu hari aku bersama isteri tercinta menikmati hidangan di salah sebuah restoran di seksyen 7, Shah Alam. Kami merupakan pasangan kahwin muda yang baru sahaja melangsungkan perkahwinan pada Syawal yang lepas. Kedua-dua kami berusia awal 20an.
Di kota metropolitan Shah Alam, pelbagai gelagat anak muda dengan pasangan masing-masing dapat di saksikan. ‘couple’ memang bersepah dan ia satu trend yang sukar di halang dan makin merebak hingga ke sekolah rendah. Kebiasaan mereka gemar menikmati dinner di restoran-restoran di sekitar Bandar shah alam. Student kan, jarang yang berpeluang masak sendiri.
Pendek cerita, di restoran tersebut, ‘couple’ dengan gaya mereka sendiri lepak dengan kekasih mereka. Ada yang berpegan tangan(trend minimum couple sekarang), duduk rapat-rapat. Memang agak ramai. Tidak kurang yang makan bersama satu group tanpa mengenal lelaki atau wanita.
Maka, terdetik dalam hati aku, mereka ini selamba sahaja berpegang tangan dengan kekasih mereka. Memang tidak tahu malu. Adakah mereka tidak tahu dosa hal demikian? malah seolah-olah mereka bangga ada copule..orang Terengganu gelar “gelepor”.
Hati kecil aku berkata lagi, "mereka bangga dengan kekasih mereka, mereka riak bila berpegang tangan meskipun terang lagi bersuluh dosanya…maka kenapa aku tidak zahirkan keindahan syariat Islam yakni kahwin kepada mereka..?”
Selangkah dengan itu, tatkala selesai makan, aku bangkit untuk bayar sambil menarik dan pegang tangan isteri. Isteriku agak terkejut sebab aku tidak pernah pegang tangan dia di khayalak ramai. Mujurlah dia tidak menarik tanganya, malah dia memaut lengan aku.
Nah, banyak mata mula memerhati kami. Aku tidak tahu apakah sebab pandangan mereka fokus kepada kami. Yelah, aku berbaju melayu, berkain sarung sahaja dan isteri bertudung labuh. Mungkin pada awalnya mereka fikir ‘budak alim pun couple pun pegang tangan’. Setengah mereka mula memahami kami pasangan suami isteri.
Aku bangga mengamalkan sunnah Nabi aku iaitu berkahwin. Tiada niat berpegang tangan ketika itu melainkan kami mahu tunjuk betapa bahagianya berkahwin muda. Kami tidak perlu takut-takut dan risau tentang dosa. Secara tersirat aku mahu memberi motivasi kepada anak-anak muda di hadapan aku yang sudah ada kemampuan supaya berkahwin segera. Itulah seindah-indah enjoy ketika muda bukan seperti kehidupan Barat..’zaman muda, zaman enjoy puas-puas’ kerana falsafah demikian, akhirnya berlaku zina, berlaku bertukar-tukar pasangan. Sesungguhnya aku ingin promosi sunnah Nabiku. Sabda Nabi SAW:
أعلنوا هذا النكاح
“iklankan perkahwinan ini”(Riwayat Ahmad)
Ketika dalam kereta. Isteri aku bertanya:
” abang, kenapa tiba-tiba sahaja pegang tangan saya di depan orang ramai tadi”
Aku menjawab:
“Pasangan sebelum berkahwin akan berpegang dan berkepit-kepit dijalanan, seolah-olah mencabar hukum Islam itu sendiri. Rata-rata perkara jelek ini telah diterima didalam norma masyarakat kita dan dijadikan budaya. Masyarakat tidak lagi hairan tentang pasangan ‘couple’ sekarang berpegang tangan. Jadi dalam keadaan tadi, abang mahu tunjuk yang lebih utama berpegang tangan adalah orang berkahwin, biar mereka tidak memandang negatif kahwin muda walhal pada masa yang sama menghalalkan campuran lelaki dan wanita.”
Masalah pegang tangan isteri di khayalak ramai adalah harus selagi tidak kelihatan berlebihan adat masyarakat itu sendiri. Di Malaysia, pegang tangan di kalangan orang berpasangan adalah perkara biasa maka jika suami isteri berpegang tangan di khayalak ramai bukanlah perkara yang pelik di mata masyarakat sekarang. Dan jika merasakan ia boleh jadi fitnah, maka lebih baik elakkan.
Ayuh temanku, berkahwinlah. Jika tiada wang atau takut berhadapan risiko kahwin awal atau risau tanggapan sanak saudara…kita boleh jumpa. Sedikit petua akan di kongsi bersama nanti. Sekian..
ULTRABUNYI MEMBUKTIKAN KEBENARAN AL-QURAN
Di mana bayi itu belajar Sujud? di sekolah? di universiti? Adakan dari dirinya sendiri? sedangkan berakal pun belum. siapa yang mensujudkan bayi itu? Subhanallah..Manusia yang punya akal taknak sujud, baby yg belum tahu apa-apa pula yg sujud.Itulah fitrah manusia, manusia dilahirkn dalam islam. dalam keadaan sujud kepada Allah. Manusia dilahirkan dalam keadaan suci tanpa sebarang dosa dan keadaan dan ibu bapa yang akan merubah agama anaknya.
Tanpa kita sedari, bayi di dalam kandungan akan sujud seperti umat Islam bersembahyang di dalam rahim ibunya apabila didengari bacaan Al_Quran. Inilah Kebesaran Allah S.W.T yang menjadikan manusia untuk sujud dan patuh kepada Nya.
BERHATI-2 BERMAIN BORLING
korang nak ke macam ni ??
so siape2 yang suke sangat pergi maen bowling tuu , jangan pakai cincin time maen .. nauzubillah ~ minta dijauhkan , xdapat bayangkan betapa sakitnye T_T
so siape2 yang suke sangat pergi maen bowling tuu , jangan pakai cincin time maen .. nauzubillah ~ minta dijauhkan , xdapat bayangkan betapa sakitnye T_T
OH' IBU
Pengorbanan Seorang Ibu
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Ini adalah kisah benar pengorbanan seorang ibu semasa Gempa Bumi di jepun.
Selepas gempa bumi reda, apabila penyelamat tiba di runtuhan rumah seorang wanita muda, mereka melihat mayat beliau melalui celah runtuhan dan timbunan tanah. Tetapi entah bagaimana ia kelihatan agak aneh seperti melutut pada seseorang dan menyembah ke hadapan, dan dua tangannya menyokong sesuatu objek. Rumah runtuh itu telah menghempas belakang dan kepalanya.
Dengan usaha yang sukar, ketua pasukan penyelamat meletakkan tangannya melalui celahan yang kecil di dinding untuk mencapai badan wanita tersebut. Dia berharap bahawa wanita ini mungkin masih hidup. Walau bagaimanapun, badannya yang sejuk dan kaku membuktikan bahawa wanita itu telah meninggal dunia.
Dia dan seluruh pasukan meninggalkan rumah itu dan mencari mangsa pada bangunan runtuh yang seterusnya. Tanpa sebarang alasan, ketua pasukan ini didorong oleh satu kuasa yang kuat menariknya untuk kembali ke rumah wanita yang runtuh itu. Sekali lagi, dia melutut dan melalui celahan runtuhan yang sempit untuk meninjau keadaan mayat itu.
Tiba-tiba, dia menjerit kegirangan, “Seorang kanak-kanak! Ada kanak-kanak! ”
Seluruh pasukan bekerja bersama-sama dengan berhati-hati mereka memindahkan objek runtuhan yang menghempas wanita itu hingga mati. Terdapat seorang kanak-kanak lelaki berusia 3 bulan yang dibalut dengan selimut berbunga di bawah mayat ibunya.
Jelas sekali, wanita itu telah berkorban hingga ke akhir hayatnya untuk menyelamatkan anaknya. Apabila rumahnya runtuh, dia menggunakan tubuhnya untuk melindungi anaknya. Budak lelaki itu masih tidur dengan nyenyak semasa ketua pasukan penyelamat itu menemuinya.
Doktor bergegas datang untuk memeriksa anak kecil tersebut. Selepas beliau membuka selimut, terdapat telefon bimbit di dalam selimut itu. Tertera teks mesej pada skrin telefon bimbit itu, “Jika kamu boleh hidup, kamu harus ingat bahawa ibu sayang kamu.” mesej ini telah dihantar dari satu tangan ke tangan yang lain. Setiap individu yang membaca mesej pasti menangis. “Jika kamu boleh hidup, kamu harus ingat bahawa ibu sayang kamu.” Begitulah kasih sayang seorang ibu pada anaknya!!
Jangan lupa untuk tekan butang share♥
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Translation English
This is a true story of Mother’s Sacrifice during the Japan Earthquake.
After the Earthquake had subsided, when the rescuers reached the ruins of a young woman’s house, they saw her dead body through the cracks. But her pose was somehow strange that she knelt on her knees like a person was worshiping; her body was leaning forward, and her two hands were supporting by an object. The collapsed house had crashed her back and her head.
With so many difficulties, the leader of the rescuer team put his hand through a narrow gap on the wall to reach the woman’s body. He was hoping that this woman could be still alive. However, the cold and stiff body told him that she had passed away for sure.
He and the rest of the team left this house and were going to search the next collapsed building. For some reasons, the team leader was driven by a compelling force to go back to the ruin house of the dead woman. Again, he knelt down and used his had through the narrow cracks to search the little space under the dead body. Suddenly, he screamed with excitement,” A child! There is a child! “
The whole team worked together; carefully they removed the piles of ruined objects around the dead woman. There was a 3 months old little boy wrapped in a flowery blanket under his mother’s dead body. Obviously, the woman had made an ultimate sacrifice for saving her son. When her house was falling, she used her body to make a cover to protect her son. The little boy was still sleeping peacefully when the team leader picked him up.
The medical doctor came quickly to exam the little boy. After he opened the blanket, he saw a cell phone inside the blanket. There was a text message on the screen. It said,” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” This cell phone was passing around from one hand to another. Every body that read the message wept. ” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” Such is the mother’s love for her child!!
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Ini adalah kisah benar pengorbanan seorang ibu semasa Gempa Bumi di jepun.
Selepas gempa bumi reda, apabila penyelamat tiba di runtuhan rumah seorang wanita muda, mereka melihat mayat beliau melalui celah runtuhan dan timbunan tanah. Tetapi entah bagaimana ia kelihatan agak aneh seperti melutut pada seseorang dan menyembah ke hadapan, dan dua tangannya menyokong sesuatu objek. Rumah runtuh itu telah menghempas belakang dan kepalanya.
Dengan usaha yang sukar, ketua pasukan penyelamat meletakkan tangannya melalui celahan yang kecil di dinding untuk mencapai badan wanita tersebut. Dia berharap bahawa wanita ini mungkin masih hidup. Walau bagaimanapun, badannya yang sejuk dan kaku membuktikan bahawa wanita itu telah meninggal dunia.
Dia dan seluruh pasukan meninggalkan rumah itu dan mencari mangsa pada bangunan runtuh yang seterusnya. Tanpa sebarang alasan, ketua pasukan ini didorong oleh satu kuasa yang kuat menariknya untuk kembali ke rumah wanita yang runtuh itu. Sekali lagi, dia melutut dan melalui celahan runtuhan yang sempit untuk meninjau keadaan mayat itu.
Tiba-tiba, dia menjerit kegirangan, “Seorang kanak-kanak! Ada kanak-kanak! ”
Seluruh pasukan bekerja bersama-sama dengan berhati-hati mereka memindahkan objek runtuhan yang menghempas wanita itu hingga mati. Terdapat seorang kanak-kanak lelaki berusia 3 bulan yang dibalut dengan selimut berbunga di bawah mayat ibunya.
Jelas sekali, wanita itu telah berkorban hingga ke akhir hayatnya untuk menyelamatkan anaknya. Apabila rumahnya runtuh, dia menggunakan tubuhnya untuk melindungi anaknya. Budak lelaki itu masih tidur dengan nyenyak semasa ketua pasukan penyelamat itu menemuinya.
Doktor bergegas datang untuk memeriksa anak kecil tersebut. Selepas beliau membuka selimut, terdapat telefon bimbit di dalam selimut itu. Tertera teks mesej pada skrin telefon bimbit itu, “Jika kamu boleh hidup, kamu harus ingat bahawa ibu sayang kamu.” mesej ini telah dihantar dari satu tangan ke tangan yang lain. Setiap individu yang membaca mesej pasti menangis. “Jika kamu boleh hidup, kamu harus ingat bahawa ibu sayang kamu.” Begitulah kasih sayang seorang ibu pada anaknya!!
Jangan lupa untuk tekan butang share♥
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Translation English
This is a true story of Mother’s Sacrifice during the Japan Earthquake.
After the Earthquake had subsided, when the rescuers reached the ruins of a young woman’s house, they saw her dead body through the cracks. But her pose was somehow strange that she knelt on her knees like a person was worshiping; her body was leaning forward, and her two hands were supporting by an object. The collapsed house had crashed her back and her head.
With so many difficulties, the leader of the rescuer team put his hand through a narrow gap on the wall to reach the woman’s body. He was hoping that this woman could be still alive. However, the cold and stiff body told him that she had passed away for sure.
He and the rest of the team left this house and were going to search the next collapsed building. For some reasons, the team leader was driven by a compelling force to go back to the ruin house of the dead woman. Again, he knelt down and used his had through the narrow cracks to search the little space under the dead body. Suddenly, he screamed with excitement,” A child! There is a child! “
The whole team worked together; carefully they removed the piles of ruined objects around the dead woman. There was a 3 months old little boy wrapped in a flowery blanket under his mother’s dead body. Obviously, the woman had made an ultimate sacrifice for saving her son. When her house was falling, she used her body to make a cover to protect her son. The little boy was still sleeping peacefully when the team leader picked him up.
The medical doctor came quickly to exam the little boy. After he opened the blanket, he saw a cell phone inside the blanket. There was a text message on the screen. It said,” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” This cell phone was passing around from one hand to another. Every body that read the message wept. ” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” Such is the mother’s love for her child!!
I fell in love.......
(Second essay in my Comp class, and I think it's rather good.... I had to share.... Now to find out what my grade is.)
I met her on my eighteenth birthday. I was young, naive, and fell instantly in love. Her big brown-gray eyes, her soft dark hair and her cute button nose clenched the deal. The moment the nurse placed that beautiful, little bit of a thing in my arms I felt utterly at peace for the first time in several months. And although that peace was short lived, for at least a few moments I caught a glimpse of the future. As I put my child to my breast and felt her suckle, as the oxytocin flowed, we fell in love. I felt at peace, content, and I knew from that moment on, my life would NEVER be the same again. I felt a connection to women all over the world, and knew that there was nothing I couldn’t do, and nothing I wouldn’t do for my child. And now, 22 years later, a new bond has formed one that has taken me entirely by surprise.
Nobody had prepared me for the utter joy and contentment that motherhood could bring. The first time I truly understood how amazing a newborn could be was when my mother brought home my baby sister. I was 4 at the time, and I remember my mom sitting for hours, rocking Beth in a wooden rocking chair crooning the lullabies that she used to sing to me to that tiny blonde baby, and she would look so content. I would imitate my mother, and rock my baby dolls and sing to them, try to nurse them like my mother would do my baby sister. But a baby doll is a poor substitute for an infant, and the emotional reactions that happen when you hold a baby don’t happen when you hold a doll. There are things that can’t be taught, you have to learn through experience. Motherhood is one of those things.
As I held my first born, I suddenly understood the beaming Madonna in portraits. Before this moment, I never understood why she looked so happy, so ecstatic. As a mother, I felt initiated into a secret society of women. I felt that this was the meaning of life: to give life, and to nurture life. This was what I was meant to do. All those years playing with my dolls, then later babysitting the neighbor kids was just the prelude, I was finally stepping on stage for the opening act. Seeing those big brown-gray eyes looking back at me as my child took nourishment from me for the first time was the single most awe-inspiring moment of my life.
Later, as my child grew bigger, the awe inspiring moments were fewer and further between. Nevertheless, at certain moments, the oxytocin would kick in, and the peace and contentment would reign supreme in my soul. If I was feeling stressed out, I would snuggle her into me and sing those lullabies that my mother would sing to me, and I would feel contentment, joy, at peace. These scenes of joy and difficulty would repeat themselves as I grew as a mother and my child grew into a strong-willed individual.
My life took on a whole new dimension as a few short months ago as another beautiful child was laid in my arms. Looking down into her gray-blue eyes as she stared back up at me, gave me such a feeling of contentment that I hadn’t felt in nearly 18 years. Holding my first grandchild in my arms for the first time was a reawakening of my soul. Feeling her tiny fingers clasp around my pinky, I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that the world is a much better place because she is here. Suddenly, the same feelings that I felt all those years ago while holding my first born were renewed, but with a depth that I never knew existed.
It’s amazing how my life has come full circle. As I was holding my newborn, I didn’t think I would ever feel so at peace with the world. Now, nearly twenty two years later, I find that I can get back that intoxicating feeling. I cannot imagine anything else that can bring me to that
level of contentment, apart from for watching my children, and then my grandchildren, grow up and have families of their own. If I can see my progeny have even half as much joy in their lives through sharing them with the ones they love, then I will consider my life well lived.
Hello Again
The most amazing thing has just happened to me. I'm not really sure why I feel compelled to write a post about this especially since the few followers I had don't read this blog anymore. Which, let's be honest, is completely my fault. I suppose I'm compelled to write this down so I can remember this feeling for as long as I can and access it whenever I want.I was having dinner with one of my co-workers. She's a ton of fun and I can't wait to do it again. (Thanks Maria!!!!) Let me say that it must've been fate or something that I even answered my phone. If I don't know the number I usually let it go to voice mail. See, back in 2006 I moved home from San Antonio. I currently still have my SA number. When I get a call from an unknown SA number I assume it's the wrong number. Yet, this time I answered. One, because one of my students this year moved to SA earlier this year and I thought there was a chance it was his family. Two, I answered because "something" made me. The voice on the other line came from someone much older than my student. (I teach second grade :)) He asked if I knew who it was and of course I didn't. He went on to say that it was D, a student that I had 7 years ago in fifth grade while I taught in San Antonio. As stated in the post that I linked to this one, D left a lasting impression in my life.
Naturally, as educators we aspire to inspire everyone of our students. But not often does the student inspire us. I was lucky enough to have had this happen my second year of teaching. I kept in touch with D for the rest of my time in SA. Taking him to movies and dinner. He even helped me move into my last apartment. I was his unofficial "Big Brother". As D got older, he needed me less and less, and found other great and positive teachers that helped him. Finally, I moved home and D and I kept in touch through an occasional email here and there.
I have to admit that when I realized it was D I internally cheered like a little girl. Here was this student that had changed me and my teaching 7 years ago. He went on to mention that he was graduating this year. He told me all about school, picking a college, his girlfriend and family. And then it happened...that amazing moment. He finally said what he had wanted to say. His reason for calling. With the help of one of his teachers he tracked down my old co-worker/best friend/"sister" and was able to get my contact information. He said he wanted to send me pictures. Pictures of important events in his life. He also mentioned something I had completely forgotten. He said he had my contact information in a journal I gave him back in fifth grade that he had kept until just recently. (He thinks his girlfriend misplaced it.) But it was what he said next that moved me to tears. Tears that have kept streaming down my face for the last hour and half. He said that he wanted to find that journal because it meant a lot to him. So much that he never wrote in it. All that is written is the page I wrote on where I had dedicated the journal to him. Can you believe that I didn't remember that? But the emotion behind his voice when he said he was sad he couldn't find it made me lose it. I told him how much I appreciated that and how proud of him I was.
There are so many things that I can share about D that will help you all understand how incredible this student was. But in the end, what matters is that I know. And now, you all know a little bit more.
I am just about to end my 10th year of teaching. I've had tough classes, demanding students, and emotionally draining work environments. But to me, all of that is worth the struggle when you hear from a student like D. I can only pray that every teacher have his or her D sometime in their career. It's the most amazing feeling!!!!
Life is hard. Trying to make sense of bad things that happen just causes more pain. I wish I could turn my brain off. The good days/moments are starting to outweigh the bad more and more but when the bad hits, it knocks the wind out of me. I know this drowning feeling will eventually pass but I'm not sure if I'll ever be 100% repaired. I never thought things would be this way. I'm living proof that if you think things can't/won't happen to you, they can. Having all the facts gives you all the power. I was clueless and now I'm making the slow climb back to solid ground.
KECANTIKAN SEORANG LELAKI
Kecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa fizikal tetapi pada murni rohani. Lelaki yang cantik,adalah:-
1) Lelaki yang mampu mengalirkan airmata untuk ingatan
2) Lelaki yang sedia menerima segala teguran
3) Lelaki yang memberi madu,setelah menerima racun
4) Lelaki yang tenang dan lapang dada
5) Lelaki yang baik sangka
6) Lelaki yang tak pernah putus asa Kecantikan lelaki berdiri di atas kemuliaan hati. Seluruh kecantikan yang ada pada Nabi Muhammad adalah kecantikan yang sempurna seorang lelaki.
Kegagahan Wanita
Kegagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan,tetapi pada kekuatan perasaan. Perempuan yang gagah,adalah:-
1) Perempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan
2) Perempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan
3) Perempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan
4) Perempuan yang tidak meminta-minta agar di penuhi segala keinginan.
Kegagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. Seluruh kegagahan yang ada pada Khadijah adalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.
Sabda Rasulullah SAW: "Sebarkanlah ajaranku walau satu ayat pun" Surah Al-Ahzab:
Ayat 71
"Nescaya Allah memperbaiki bagimu amalan-amalanmu dan mengampuni bagimu dosa-dosamu. Dan barangsiapa mentaati Allah dan Rasul-Nya, maka sesungguhnya ia telah mendapat kemenangan yang besar."
"Menyinari Aspirasi, Warnai Inspirasi"
Wallahualam
pasrah segalanya
Pernah hati ini terguris
Dengan fitnah dan tohmahan menghiris
Sehingga terasa diri ini hina
Kerana tiada siapa yang sudi membela
Kutabahkan hatiku harungi hidup
Biarpun tiada siapa yang menemani
Keseorangan aku di lautan sepi
Ditinggalkan mereka yang aku percayai
Namun ku tahu ada hikmahnya
Setiap segala yang menimpa diri
Kuserahkan segala padaMu Tuhan
Yang berkuasa jua mencipta
Kerana engkau MAha Mengetahui
SEgala apa yang terbuku di hati
C/O:
Dengan fitnah dan tohmahan menghiris
Sehingga terasa diri ini hina
Kerana tiada siapa yang sudi membela
Kutabahkan hatiku harungi hidup
Biarpun tiada siapa yang menemani
Keseorangan aku di lautan sepi
Ditinggalkan mereka yang aku percayai
Namun ku tahu ada hikmahnya
Setiap segala yang menimpa diri
Kuserahkan segala padaMu Tuhan
Yang berkuasa jua mencipta
Kerana engkau MAha Mengetahui
SEgala apa yang terbuku di hati
C/O:
Ya Allah tidakku terdaya lagi
Menahan dugaan yang mencabar ini
Terasa bagai noktah telah kutemui
Mengakhiri segala yang telah aku mulai
Ya Allah engkau lindungilah aku
Bekalkanlah daku dengan limpahan iman
Agar tabahku menghadapi dugaan
Agar tidakku berhenti di pertengahan
Kini di sini aku berdiri
Bersama harapan yang tulus suci
Agar terbitlah kembali menteri pagi
Setelah malamku berkalut benci
lagu & lirik : Syam(Syamer DeHearty)
Menahan dugaan yang mencabar ini
Terasa bagai noktah telah kutemui
Mengakhiri segala yang telah aku mulai
Ya Allah engkau lindungilah aku
Bekalkanlah daku dengan limpahan iman
Agar tabahku menghadapi dugaan
Agar tidakku berhenti di pertengahan
Kini di sini aku berdiri
Bersama harapan yang tulus suci
Agar terbitlah kembali menteri pagi
Setelah malamku berkalut benci
lagu & lirik : Syam(Syamer DeHearty)
4 lelaki
Empat Lelaki
Pertama:- 'Ayahnya' - Apabila seseorang yang bergelar ayah tidak memperdulikan anak-anak perempuannya di dunia.Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat, mengaji dan sebagainya.Dia membiarkan anak-anak perempuannya tidak menutup aurat.. tidak cukup kalau dengan hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja maka dia akan ditarik oleh anaknya.
Kedua:- 'Suaminya' - Apabila seorang suami tidak memperdulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul bebas di pejabat,memperhiaskan diri bukan untuk suami tapi untuk pandangan kaum lelaki yang bukan mahram,apabila suami mendiamkan diri.. Walaupun dia seorang alim (solat tidak tangguh, puasa tidak tinggal)maka dia akan ditarik oleh isterinya.
Ketiga:- 'Abang-abangnya' - Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada, tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh kepala abang-abangnya.. jikalau mereka hanya mementing keluarganya sahaja dan adik perempuannya dibiar melencong dari ajaran ISLAM. Tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat.
Keempat:-' Anak Lelakinya' - Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yang haram dari Islam, maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertangungjawabkan diakhirat kelak.. Nantikan tarikan ibunya.
Maka kita lihat betapa hebatnya tarikan wanita bukan sahaja di dunia malah di akhirat pun tarikannya begitu hebat...maka kaum lelaki yang bergelar ayah / suami / abang atau anak harus memainkan peranan mereka yang sebenar tidaksilap firman ALLAH S.W.T.:-
" Hai anak adam peliharakanlah diri kamu serta ahli kamu dari api neraka,di mana bahan pembakarnya ialah manusia dan batu-batu.."
Hai wanita, kasihankan ayah anda, suami anda,abang-abang anda serta anak-anak lelaki anda..Kesiankanlah mereka dan juga diri kamu sendiri..jalankan perintah ALLAH S.W.T. dengan bersungguh-sungguh dan dengan penuh ikhlas..
Akhir kata, marilah kita berdoa agar kita semua terselamat dari ditarik dan tertarik oleh mana-mana pihak. Harga seseorang muslim adalah sangat berharga.
ALLAH S.W.T. nilaikan seseorang muslim dengan SYURGA.. semua kaum muslim masuk syurga..janganlah kita membuang atau tidak mengendah janji ALLAH S.W.T.
Semoga kita semua tergolong dari ahli syurga yang memasukinya tanpa hisab.
AMIN YARABBALALAMIN
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